Tolerance

We may face conflicts or arguments in our daily life. Escaping and retorting are not a good way to deal with them.

We need tolerance. Open our mind to listen to others and to express ourselves. To solve a conflict requires an open environment which everyone has the chance to share their ideas. If they are unwilling to share their points, we still need tolerance to talk to them and to help them to share.

Another important thing is to pay attention to the specific action, not character. It is very bad to abuse others and also keep silence. The best way is to say something related to the action and make a discussion with them in a calm way.